I think I am most at ease, most relaxed these days.  I feel comfortable being with a new group of fast found friends each weekend and being happy with the fact I spend most my nights alone.  You can really get the best thinking done when you are alone.  Completely by yourself and without the distraction of a TV, music, a phone.  It will strip yourself bare and pull out the dreams, afflictions, and imaginations you constantly have going through mind and gives you a slate to work with all of the ideas.  You actually get to know yourself more and more...hell maybe one day you will find yourself....